Dorothy made her daily call at 6:15 last night. Even though I was out with frineds- took the call. I asked her if everything was ok and that I’d have to call her back in about an hour.
She said ok- no problem- you don’t have to call me back, I’ll talk to you tomorrow.
Fifteen minutes later she called back. Again I answered- she had no remembrance of calling me just a short time before. I asked again if everything was ok and she said – I really need to talk to you. I again said I was with friends and I’d have to call her back.
Fifteen minutes later. I did not answer.
Fifteen minutes later. I did not answer.
Fifteen minutes later she called again, and I answered. Her song was the same as most nights- I need your help getting me out of here. I listened for 25 minutes.
I hate that she doesn’t remember. I can’t imagine what she is going through.
Remaining cool, calm and collective it the secret.
Peace & Love,
Cheryl Doreen
Dorothy's Dementia 
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