I answer the phone- Dorothy is on the other line. Mom says, “Hey Cheryl, I need your help” and I prepare to listen to her song. There’s a knock at her door- when she opens it- her voice changes to happiness. Jan, her friend of over 30 years is standing on the other side. Mom hands Jan the phone and we speak for a moment, I know mom is excited to visit (just like a little kid would be excited to see their friend) I don’t keep Jan long. Jan usually visits on Sunday afternoons- so, I know that this is a treat for Dorothy. We hang up and a feeling of relaxation embraces me, and it feel good- I know that for the next few hours mom will be just fine.
Mom and Jan worked together at an assisted living for a long time. Mom has always spoken very highly of Jan and thinks the world of her. I am so thankful, and mom is very blessed to have Jan take time out of her busy life to visit her.
After a few hours Jan called me on her way home and we chatted. She asked if it would be okay if she took mom out and about occasionally-absolutely was my response! Feel free to take her where ever you’d like.
There are Angels here on earth — and Jan is one of them.
Find the time to visit, call or send some flowers to a “shut-in”, weather they are at home the hospital, or the “old folks home”. It will lift their spirits and you will feel good knowing that you made someone smile. (-:
Peace & Love,
Cheryl Doreen
Dorothy's Dementia 